Thursday, November 4, 2010

Letting go

The hardest part when you love is when you are left with no other options but to end the relationship you have with the one you love not because you want to but because you have to because your love is going nowhere and forever is headed to neverland and you, yourselves are going on your own separate ways.

Remember what Kris Aquino once said, "It takes two for a relationship to work."

How could a relationship work if you're headed to your own separate roads? How do you expect a relationship to work if things are going wrong and only one is fighting for the love? And how could one change another's mind? How could you convince him/her to work it out?

They say, a breakup is always a blessing for GOD saved you from the wrong one..

To let go is to be brave and strong enough to face reality and get out of fantasy, fantasy wherein you have drowned yourself with dreams of having and getting to sleep and wake up beside the one you love when you sleep and when you wake up which happens only through imagination.

What hurts in letting go is when you have just fallen deeply in love with the one you love, when you give up because you have to for things are working improperly, feelings are on and off, when you are in a dilemma and your heart is debating with your mind "should I let go or Should I not?", having to hear him/her say "I've found someone new and I love her", wishing that he will make it up to you soon but sadly he won't because he loves you no more, when you are too confused and what you can only do is to ask yourself "What the hell is going on!? I don't understand a thing.", when you just made him/her your world and when you broke up you now have nothing.", when you convince and lie to yourself that everything's gonna be alright but things are working the other way around, when you keep on holding on to nothing and finding it hard to accept that you have gone your separate ways, having to give him/her his/her freedom because he/she will be happier with his/her new one, and having to fake feelings and pretend and give false hopes

To let go and stay in love? NEVER RIGHT. How could you let go if you stay in love?

To let go is to be fair enough with yourself.

The best way of letting go is to just let go, move on, move forward and let GOD..

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